Mwana wamkazi ayenera kumvera bambo ake kapena chilango chidzatsatira mwamsanga. Apo ayi sipadzakhala mwambo ndi dongosolo m'nyumba. Ndipo kuti amamuyang'ana kamwana kake ndi kulamulira kwa makolo. Bambo ake ali ndi ufulu wodziwa yemwe amacheza naye, komwe amapita. Pomugwira iye, adamuwonetsa bwana wake yemwe. Chabwino, simungamete tebulo ndi nkhonya ngati wakunja. Kumupatsa chivundikiro ndi mawere ake ndiyo njira yabwino kwambiri yomulera ndi kusonyeza nkhaŵa yake yautate!
Mfundo yakuti mlongoyo ali ndi chidwi ndi maganizo a mchimwene wake womulera ndi choyamikirika. Ndipo kuwunika kuyenera kwake kuchokera kumalingaliro amunthu momwe angathere. Koma kumufunsa kuti atuluke pamaso pake ndi chinthu chodabwitsa. Iye amutenga iye, sichoncho iye? Msungwana waulesi yekhayu sachita mantha konse - ndizo zomwe akufuna. Anamaliza kutulutsa chithaphwi chonse pamimba pake! Anachiyendetsa icho.
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